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Crip Dyke's avatar

Yeah, I wish the news were better today, folks, but as fucked up as it may seem, having a major newspaper scream at the cops to get off their asses **IS** kind of a good thing. It's not good that the cops are on their asses, but we did get an important advocacy story from a major paper.

In the depressing world of trans policy and politics, just having a paper advocate for better is a welcome change.

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There's an element of disposability I think you just get used to growing up trans. The first time I saw people "like me" was on Jerry Springer, being paraded out like a sideshow for a drooling audience, and they were deeply unsympathetic people besides. Damaged and also based on the shows, often hurting others.

At best we were a novelty, to make films like The Crying Game somehow less boring. Not sure if it worked - I'm not cisgender.

I've noticed many of us - even the famousish ones like Kate Bornstein - end up anarchists, or otherwise politically radical, and it makes sense to me - growing up in a world that wants to burn you down tends to make you want to return the favor. Start over with something better, built from the ashes.

It also makes one acutely aware of the sharp corners and hard edges in this world. That barbarism is precious inches away from civilization.

One of the unwritten rules of policing is to keep the "disposable people" in line. The folks that the rest of us are uncomfortable with. The homeless, the seriously mentally ill, the radically queer, or black, even leftist activists have been routinely dehumanized and disciplined and destroyed by our society, and it's cops that do most of the heavy lifting in that regard.

I don't feel like being white, middle class. and trans makes me disposable anymore - things *have* changed somewhat for the better, but not for black trans women. Not near enough by a damned sight. I guarantee you most of these victims were black without even looking it up.

Still, having spent some time there gives one a clearer view of the parts of society we would rather not talk about.

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