Handling rejection in a healthy manner, even being upbeat about it, like “I was just curious if you’d like to go for coffee or a bite to eat sometime, if not, that’s ok too, we can just stay sportsball pals!” is a sign of healthy self-esteem, and takes much of the pressure and awkwardness away. Being direct, friendly, and ok with all outcomes is a great approach. In my dating years, I even found a way to address the often awkward first kiss. I’d wait for the moment to feel right, maybe the end of a great first date, but often a second date or even later, then say “are you like me, do you also find the first kiss to be a little anxious and awkward?” The answer was almost always a resounding “Yes! So awkward!” Then I’d offer, “should we just get the first one out of the way, so it’s not hanging out there, and doesn’t have to be some unpredictable blitz kiss?” This truly went over well. Or, you can just ask. “That was such a fun date, I never knew how good you are at laser tag and ax throwing! I’m sorry about the cheese fries. I’ll pay for your dry cleaning. You look so beautiful tonight. May I kiss you?” Both strategies work. It’s all about giving options, and being delighted with any outcome. Give the power and control to the other person, and make their escape/rejection very easy for them. Because you never want someone to say “yes” simply because they were on the spot, or felt pressured, or didn’t want to hurt your feelings. You want a “yes” because they enthusiastically like you. And making it clear that you are comfortable with “no, thanks!” says a lot about your character. Good luck!
Michael is deployed serving our country, something you know nothing about. Someone who continually disrespects the sacrifices of military families has no business being commander in chief.
The odds makers have Michelle Obama in 3rd for likelihood of being our next POTUS. These guys aren't just pulling it out of their Fox, people are betting real money.
I heard a person I previously considered rational go on about how Biden will not be the nominee and guess who it will be - M. Obama. Everyone is susceptible to conspiracy theory and the fears being left out, but this is such an obvious Republican grifting scam. So fucking obviously fake I expect to read at least three stories about it in the NYT and WaPo - starting Sunday. People are so dumb. Including those who are allegedly "well educated".
Although, this does also show you how ridiculous voting for third party candidates are, when an insane right wing conspiracy theory is more likely than any of them winning.
How can everyone think about and discuss things while completely ignoring the fact that TAYLOR SWIFT IS GOING TO WATCH HER BOYFRIEND PLAY FOOTBALL!!! WAKE UP AMERICA!!! Oh God, oh God, oh God, oh God!!! I LIKE PUDDING!!!
I'm re-watching the 1995 film "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar". This is such a great movie, and I can't believe Patrick Swayze and Wesley Snipes weren't nominated for Oscars because that is some Exceptionally Fine Acting. Swayze and Leguizamo did earn Golden Globe nominations, but didn't win. According to Wikipedia, the writer, Douglas Beane, was inspired by an anti-gay propaganda film called "The Gay Agenda." Of that film, Beane said, "There's a scene where they show drag queens going through a town, and the narrator is warning the viewers that these people will take over your town, and I thought, Well, that would be fun." I'm with Beane. My question is ... would they make this movie today???
My favorite part is when Noxema explains to Chi Chi the differences between transvestite, transexual, drag queen, and a tired little Latin boy in a dress.
"Hey, you wanna grab (coffee/drinks/dinner/other consumable) after the GENERIC SPORTSBALL GAME sometime? Friendly or flirty, your choice."
Note: I DO NOT have the fortitude to ask someone this myself. I am a coward. But it sounds good in my head.
I ind this article very helpful!
You will only regret not asking but maybe wait until the last game of the season to avoid awkwardness.
Christ, if I couldn't handle rejection gracefully I would have become an incel in my early 20s.
I didn't, because I realized the odds of rejection were at least 50%. Not every woman was unattached or interested in my sorry ass.
Christ, if I couldn't handle rejection gracefully I would have become an incel in my early 20s.
I didn't, because I realized the odds of rejection were at least 50%. Not every woman was unattached or interested in my sorry ass.
Handling rejection in a healthy manner, even being upbeat about it, like “I was just curious if you’d like to go for coffee or a bite to eat sometime, if not, that’s ok too, we can just stay sportsball pals!” is a sign of healthy self-esteem, and takes much of the pressure and awkwardness away. Being direct, friendly, and ok with all outcomes is a great approach. In my dating years, I even found a way to address the often awkward first kiss. I’d wait for the moment to feel right, maybe the end of a great first date, but often a second date or even later, then say “are you like me, do you also find the first kiss to be a little anxious and awkward?” The answer was almost always a resounding “Yes! So awkward!” Then I’d offer, “should we just get the first one out of the way, so it’s not hanging out there, and doesn’t have to be some unpredictable blitz kiss?” This truly went over well. Or, you can just ask. “That was such a fun date, I never knew how good you are at laser tag and ax throwing! I’m sorry about the cheese fries. I’ll pay for your dry cleaning. You look so beautiful tonight. May I kiss you?” Both strategies work. It’s all about giving options, and being delighted with any outcome. Give the power and control to the other person, and make their escape/rejection very easy for them. Because you never want someone to say “yes” simply because they were on the spot, or felt pressured, or didn’t want to hurt your feelings. You want a “yes” because they enthusiastically like you. And making it clear that you are comfortable with “no, thanks!” says a lot about your character. Good luck!
https://www.oddschecker.com/us/insight/specials/politics/20240130-michelle-obamas-democratic-candidate-o
Nicely put. But once tfg gets the nomination, does she go ahead and endorse him, or go with some No Labels third party dipshit?
https://x.com/nikkihaley/status/1756434033108549955?s=61&t=d57_wdu2mp3jUpQgi28A5Q
Michael is deployed serving our country, something you know nothing about. Someone who continually disrespects the sacrifices of military families has no business being commander in chief.
Also, WHAR MELON? Jackass.
words that are shifting beneath our feet
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CVbCY51iz1k
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLBACEP6LsI
Trinity Infinity
The movie is over if you'd like to join us there for OT.
Thanks BTW for remembering to post this notification every Sat nite
We can be with the cool kids?
We are all the cool kids, yes!
*blushes*
* stands up straighter *
The odds makers have Michelle Obama in 3rd for likelihood of being our next POTUS. These guys aren't just pulling it out of their Fox, people are betting real money.
I heard a person I previously considered rational go on about how Biden will not be the nominee and guess who it will be - M. Obama. Everyone is susceptible to conspiracy theory and the fears being left out, but this is such an obvious Republican grifting scam. So fucking obviously fake I expect to read at least three stories about it in the NYT and WaPo - starting Sunday. People are so dumb. Including those who are allegedly "well educated".
I'm willing to bet against her.
What're the odds for that?
11/1 That's an excellent idea.
If that's a serious thing, I'm putting money on that.
https://www.oddschecker.com/us/politics/us-politics/us-presidential-election-2024/winner
I just looked it up. Obama plus $1,200. I'm in.
That's odds for her to win the primary.
Not the odds against.
OK. I don't gamble. That is still solid, right?
People throw their money away every day.
Although, this does also show you how ridiculous voting for third party candidates are, when an insane right wing conspiracy theory is more likely than any of them winning.
I have a bridge to sell them.
How can everyone think about and discuss things while completely ignoring the fact that TAYLOR SWIFT IS GOING TO WATCH HER BOYFRIEND PLAY FOOTBALL!!! WAKE UP AMERICA!!! Oh God, oh God, oh God, oh God!!! I LIKE PUDDING!!!
I like to eat pudding with a spoon.
Spoon!
We are endeavoring to persevere.
Bless you!
Who are the Taylor Swifts playing against this year?
Our souls!!! And my pudding!!!
I'm re-watching the 1995 film "To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar". This is such a great movie, and I can't believe Patrick Swayze and Wesley Snipes weren't nominated for Oscars because that is some Exceptionally Fine Acting. Swayze and Leguizamo did earn Golden Globe nominations, but didn't win. According to Wikipedia, the writer, Douglas Beane, was inspired by an anti-gay propaganda film called "The Gay Agenda." Of that film, Beane said, "There's a scene where they show drag queens going through a town, and the narrator is warning the viewers that these people will take over your town, and I thought, Well, that would be fun." I'm with Beane. My question is ... would they make this movie today???
I adore that movie.
"That little Latin boy in drag is crying. Find out why that little Latin boy in drag is crying."
"Little Latin boy in drag, why are you crying?" may be my favorite exchanges ever.
My favorite part is when Noxema explains to Chi Chi the differences between transvestite, transexual, drag queen, and a tired little Latin boy in a dress.
Ok, I need to rewatch. Along with Priscilla.
That's one of my oldest favorite movies right there. Stockard Channing was so good in it as well!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1RoUV9Ho8qI
John Wick Theme
Searched "Super bowl time"
A couple results showing the game time and teams. Then next up is the Top Stories.
1. Taylor Swift plays in Tokyo, next stop Las Vegas.
2. Taylor Swift arrives at LAX on way to Las Vegas.
OK, this is cray cray.
Has she endorsed Biden yet?
I find it hilarious!
There are times like this when I think we are all being played.
No, that can't be right. Back to my Taylor Swift Location Speculation Live Feed.
Probably more people will watch the SB due to Ms. Swift being there. Headline changes, rankings of stories changed, possibly different ads.