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Dee (Not Snider) 🏳️‍⚧️'s avatar

Dr. Lau sounds like an absolute saint. It's doctors like her that save our lives.

My very first surgery was vocal chord surgery, because my rather deep voice was what held me back the most, and no amount of vocal training would change that. Plus, with my autism, vocal training isn't terribly effective anyway.

It was while I was on the table that I transitioned, and I woke up as me. I celebrate it as my new birthday rather than my old one.

Anyway, the doctor regularly did this for patients whose insurance would not cover it for transgender care but would cover it for things like.. I don't know.. vocal chord nodules. I was amazingly lucky that my wife's insurance covered the surgery, but his staff was so used to filing it with insurance as vocal chord nodules that they did that for me as well instead of possibly rocking the boat.

I'll not name him here for the sake of protecting his right to privacy, but if you're internet searching for the best vocal chord surgeon in Baltimore you're sure to end up at him. He is a saint and I adore him and he gave me my life with that surgery that started everything.

That doctors like him and Dr. Lau that do these amazing things would actually be punished is just so beyond comprehension to me. How can they hate us that much when all we want to do is be happy in our own lives and our own bodies?

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PrimerGray's avatar

<Thus he violates one of our cardinal principles for living life: Don’t like gender-affirming treatment for gender dysphoria? Then don’t have any and shut the fuck up.>

Mind your own damn business.

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