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True story:

A few years ago, I guessed that one of my students might be trans. I wasn't sure. They were just pinging my gaydar, which is never 100% accurate. And asking a student if they're trans would likely freak them out, whether they are or not. So I simply asked them if they had a preferred pronoun. Such a simple, respectful question.

The student was almost deliriously happy I asked. I was instantly their favorite teacher. More importantly, their attendance improved, their participation improved, and their grades improved.

Better yet, I had a parent conference with another student's mom about a month later. Her child, who hadn't pinged my gaydar at all (I told it wasn't perfect), had seen me ask about pronouns, and decided my classroom was a safe place, and came out as trans to mom (who thankfully was very supportive). Then shortly thereafter came out to their classmates. Mom was all happy tears.

So I earned at least a couple of glitter stars for simply asking if a student had a preferred pronoun, and then using it.

I don't teach in MO, obvs, and think that's pretty fucked up if they want to make that a felony.

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OT:

𝗜𝗳 𝗜 𝘄𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗲 𝗝𝗼𝗲 𝗕𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗻’𝘀 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗨𝗻𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗲𝗰𝗵

“𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘜𝘯𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘴 … 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘺 𝘧𝘶𝘤𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘸𝘦𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦.”

https://www.jefftiedrich.com/p/if-i-wrote-joe-bidens-state-of-the-6ac?utm_source=profile&utm_medium=reader2

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