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Jennifer A's avatar

We need to start teaching a class called "Admitting You Are Wrong" in elementary schools. This is a skill only a small percentage of Americans has, to our massive detriment. Somehow admitting you got something wrong generates shame, and it shouldn't. We should embrace and applaud and praise people who say, "you know what, I fucked up, I'm sorry." We can then teach a companion course called "Gracefully Accepting an Apology and Working Together Now Towards Better Outcomes." Too much that is wrong with this world is people digging in to wrong and bad and harmful behaviors because they are scared to admit they are wrong, scared of judgment, scared of shame, scared of ostracization. This shouldn't be. It just shouldn't be. We're humans. Of course we fuck up. It's what we do then that matters.

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Lance Thrustwell's avatar

People often characterize partisan blogs/news sites as "outrage machines", reporting on events and ongoing situations that are reliably going to 'shock' and 'outrage' their readers, and keep them in a perpetual state of high dudgeon about what members of the other political side are doing (in this case, I suppose we don't know this asshole judge's political affiliation, but I believe I am characterizing what Wonkette does fairly). Wonkette certainly does this, just like Breitbart, Town Hall, etc.

...There is a crucial difference, however: the (negative) stories that Wonkette reports are about *real* injustice, real cruelty, and real threats to democracy. They are not indignant bloviations about specious threats and offenses that rely on ideology and nothing else. I sometimes get tired of news about outrageous things on the 'Kette and need to take a break, but it is almost never because I think our overlords are making mountains out of molehills - and they certainly do not deliberately misrepresent facts.

Anyway. Sorry for the spontaneous editorializing. I'm just glad this place exists.

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