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there is A Type of shitty creepy submissive dude. fetishizing female dominance or power has zip, zero, zilch to do with actually seeing women as people and supporting them.

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"People do not generally invite themselves to someone else's apartment."

Except, sometimes, in Dallas, to shoot the occupant....

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I checked out the article - now I need a disinfecting shower.

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Exposing an asshole is not always a bad thing.

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"I top from the bottom" - never heard that description before but man, I know *exactly* what that means....

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ISWYDT :)

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Streisand Effect

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So bunch of women semi-privately called him a jerk, so he's on a mission to publicly prove it? He sounds nice.

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Even the men who are decent have been taught a host of daily micro aggressions.

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Well, if they're running for office, anyway.

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#NotAllMen? srsly? Do I need to explain this?

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I think a lot of men don't see it. They don't understand the hair trigger a lot of women operate under. Think "micro aggression." You think what you've said is fine, but it's perceived as just one more little piece of meaningless bullshit someone has to swallow. It adds up. It isn't enough to avoid the big obvious stuff. I'm not putting this well.

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And this is how it works. Thank you for your service. (no sarcasm)

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