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My (late) Religious Science minister used to say that women are encouraged to express emotions to a fault -- with anger being the one exception. And on the other side of the equation, anger is the only emotion men are encouraged to display at all.

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More than once I've been asked 'how many children do you and your husband have'? We were child-free by choice. Neither of us had any interest in raising children and there certainly isn't any global shortage of people who do. It's not like a hobby that you can just drop if you lose interest in it.

And no, we didn't forgo having kids because "we were both too selfish". Truly selfish people often do want to have children and don't let their own selfishness stand in their way for a second. But the explanation is useful in a way -- it confirms the still-popular belief that if a female humanoid hasn't reproduced, there's gotta be something wrong with her.

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