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zuludaddy (seamonkey!)'s avatar

it mah burfday everywonk - whoohoo, I'm an old!

pouring rain and cold right now, so a morning wake and bake and a nap first thing, I think!

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re: the crisis in masculinity

I will probably bitch about about my ex-husband until I get a divorce (hoping to have it done by the end of the year). He left because I "don't meet his emotional needs." When I asked him exactly what I could do to meet them, all he could say was, "YOU DIDN'T SHOW ME ANY SYMPATHY WHEN I EXPERIENCED SEXISM*!"

Men are mad because they want us to treat them better than they have treated us. They want compassion where they have shown no compassion. As the people in power, they have shown NO compassion for our need to own our bodies or to remove ourselves from oppressive settings. Where are pay increases to bring the pay for women up? Where are Hygiene products? No, Men have shown no compassion for those they oppress, and I have no compassion for them. Fuck yes I am mean and I am angry. I treat people as kindly as they vote for me and my momma.

*Someone wrote "Men need more training in working with victims of abuse" in the group chat of a training he was in and when he told me I said, "It's true," and then when he told me I should feel bad that he experienced sexism, I said, "I feel bad for the women who were harmed because of the abuse they continue to experience because of poor training."

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