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@anathema_device@bne.social's avatar

aw, did I hit a nerve? If my comments sound repetitive, it's because I'm bugged by the same things in different commenters. You're doing your best to justify domestic violence. And I'm not going to change my mind because you threw a tantrum.

@anathema_device@bne.social's avatar

Women don't not leave because of a lack of brains. They don't leave because they're terrified. The most dangerous day in an abusive relationship is the one when the victim tried to leave.

ahughes798's avatar

I know some women who knowingly and willingly walked into dating jagoffs. Then they married said jagoffs. They could have gotten out when they were dating.

Dolmance's avatar

Projecting much?

Actually, I'd forgotten about you. Pathological crankiness does not leave much of an impression.

Tosca's avatar

OK. Should you ever be in the appalling position of getting punched in the face by your partner because you didn't undress fast enough to be raped ('cause that sure doesn't count as consent), you go get your shotgun and rack it. I truly hope it goes well for you. There's a lot of past examples of it not going well for American women.

In the meantime, fuck off with your victim blaming.

kev's avatar

federal law already criminalizes gun ownership for misdemeanor DV convictions

ahughes798's avatar

Whatever. I'm not blaming her for being victim. I'm blaming her for continuing to let herself be a victim. She is a woman of means. It's not like she's a poor woman who has no way to get out of her situation. THOSE are the women I feel really bad for because they are trapped.

Also, he has to sleep sometime, you know.

reynard61's avatar

Yeah, but not at all surprising. 😒

Regret's avatar

Have you seen the way people behave? Everyone needs more parents. This idea that giving feedback to adults is not OK ruins society.

Caitlyn_Bree's avatar

That's one way of looking at it. It doesn't address the fact that she hooks up with people to STAY with, knowing that they are shitheads.(also, not that it has a lot of bearing, I'm in the U.K as is she, and she found her last boyfriend in prison.. where she was working.. he was an inmate.)

Dolmance's avatar

Did you think so? I don't.

About 85 percent of white women in Mississippi voted for Donald Trump. They're overwhelmingly anti-choice, and she's been married to this swine for quite awhile.

I'd bet money my comment is accurate to a tee. And her getting bit doesn't change who she is.

markkanicki's avatar

Off subject, i suppose, but somebody who looks like this dude should be grateful to get laid at all. Maybe his wife knows that and dawdled while getting undressed in the hope that he would just fall asleep.

Amy!'s avatar

I'm glad that you got out and became the woman (and commentor, even if comments are not allowed) that you are. Jedi hugs if you want 'em.

Amy!'s avatar

I think it may not be, because it may be "consensual" instead.

Cliff Hendroval's avatar

BT;NDT. If I'm so drunk that I'm slurring my words, I'm certainly too drunk to have a consensual sexual experience.

This story makes me so mad that I have to post something I hate (Eric Boucher is a fucking hippie)

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