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I don't know shit about trans surgery or the needs of trans people. I don't need to. I'm not a surgeon, I'm not trans, and nobody near enough to me for it to be my business is.

What I do know, I know as a dad to kids who have friends who are trans, and as a friend to parents whose kids are trans.

What I know is, those kids were a mess. They were miserable. They were obviously heading for either prison or the grave, one way or another. Risk-taking behavior. Alienating everyone. Chasing away everyone who cared. We could all see the gathering storm clouds and nothing anyone did seemed to do anything but more harm.

Until a mental health professional, at the end of their rope and troubleshooting checklist, started checking out gender issues. It seemed to fit. And when they started on hormone therapy, with every one of these kids, it was like a switch flipped. All of a sudden they could function, and act right, and do stuff like a normal person.

Along the way of course, some of the kids either didn't make it, or turned out to have had other issues. It was only the kids for whom nothing else worked that anyone even suggested the issue was that they were trans.

I've been to enough kid funerals for one lifetime. I don't need to go to any more, though no doubt I will. If there's a way to prevent just one kid funeral, I'd there for it. Especially if the One Weird Trick requires absolutely nothing of me, other than that I call a kid by a name different from the one I'd gotten used to.

These people are depraved ghouls obsessed with other people's pain and children's genitals.

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"Schools shouldn't feed poor children because they can't afford it! The children should instead starve and live out their lives fighting against childhood food insecurity trauma." - The GOP

"Schools regularly do massive surgeries in their chemistry labs with their medical staff based on the whims of a teacher!" - The GOP

"These people shouldn't be around children, schools, animals, or really anyone else. My god." - The Me

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