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Cat Cafe's avatar

You don't have to jeopardize your own safety in order to speak up in the moment, especially if you're alone, and essentially at the mercy of a guy who's probably armed. It's better to stay safe, and to contribute to things like schools, or state elections, or even to go back with a group and help make changes. Create springboards to effect change gradually. You don't have to risk your life. The only thing I would think you could do would be to have a conversation with him, pleasantly, and let him see that a middle aged woman can be a person he can have a conversation with. That alone is a change for him, probably.

HogeyeGrex🌻's avatar

Yes, cats would have had a tough time building granaries, or cities, as they don't have opposable thumbs.

Cat Cafe's avatar

I sent in $25 yesterday. Please, everyone, send in your big bucks!!!

Cat Cafe's avatar

That is exactly true. I read a quote somewhere, from a white Southern lady, to the effect that she used to be able to just walk into a room without question, now she has to worry what "they" think of her. It was so revealing, that she always took for granted, or even enjoyed, that before, "THEY" had to worry about HER, but now SHE has to worry about what THEY think. Pure white privilege, weeping that other people might now be considered equal to her.

HogeyeGrex🌻's avatar

Nah. Fox Business News. It's Mammon all the way down.

Cat Cafe's avatar

Don't forget, also, what happened when people TRIED to "domesticate" and get rid of cats in the Middle Ages.... rats running rampant... Black Plague, anyone?

Serai 1's avatar

They don't have the brains to realize that she didn't say ALL of his supporters are deplorable. So by yelling HOW DARE YOU INSULT ME, they're saying they are IN the half she's talking about. If they weren't, there'd be no reason to get upset.

The Wanderer's avatar

https://www.youtube.com/wat...

Because we might need an automatic circumciser . . .

whitroth's avatar

Dammit, where are Obama's damn stormtroopers, already? I thought he was going to shut down Faux News, the psychotic talk show hosts, and scum of the earth like this, but noooooo, he's got to turn the other cheek....

TrumpLovedEpstein's avatar

fractions have confused them since 3rd grade...

nightmoth's avatar

How can anyone look at that picture of Tony Perkins and still not believe in evolution?The term "monkey-man" comes to mind, as well as "hairless ape." His vocalizations are no better: he shrieks and flings poo like an angry chimp.

Stulexington's avatar

Well those FEMA detention centers under Walmart won't fill themselves.

nightmoth's avatar

I don't know, Angela. I've lived in the South most of my life and I've been in that sort of dilemma plenty. Sometimes I go schoolmarm and say, "We don't use that word" and sometimes I give the freeze-face and sometimes I'm just too fucking tired to even bother. If it's somebody you'll never see again, you could ignore it, or maybe open up a discourse by saying, "Have you had bad experiences with black people?" If it's somebody you see a lot, you need to let them know you don't share their opinion, or otherwise you'll keep hearing it.